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  • How to be responsible for your own happiness in a relationship


    Part of my work as Marriage counselor, relationship – and life coach is to read as much as I can.  The following pointers is a result of my reading. I want to give credit to all the wise people whose books and articles have helped me to become the person I am, and still inspire me to grow. Here are some pointers to having the relationship you deserve:  Don’t be a fix-it person, be a … read more

  • Who are you when no-one’s looking?


    When you were born, you had the potential to become anybody. When you were a small child, the  world belonged to you. You were courageous, adventurous, open and flexible. When you failed, you tried again and again…until you succeeded. But you were also exposed to your parents’ fears, their beliefs and values. As you got older you experienced rejection, judgement, disapproval and limitations. You started to believe that you were not perfect, that you had … read more

  • Values and Relationships


    Today I want to quote dr John F Demartitni. He says in his book “The Heart of Love”: “Wisdom is honouring other people’s value systems, knowing they’re going to live by them no matter what, and learning to truly love and appreciate that.  Continually ask yourself, How are my highest values served by them doing what they love?’ You’ll find again and again that whatever you’re challenged to embrace in a person, represents your own … read more