How to be responsible for your own happiness in a relationship

Part of my work as Marriage counselor, relationship – and life coach is to read as much as I can.  The following pointers is a result of my reading. I want to give credit to all the wise people whose books and articles have helped me to become the person I am, and still inspire me to grow. Here are some pointers to having the relationship you deserve:  Don’t be a fix-it person, be a … read more


Values and Relationships

Today I want to quote dr John F Demartitni. He says in his book “The Heart of Love”: “Wisdom is honouring other people’s value systems, knowing they’re going to live by them no matter what, and learning to truly love and appreciate that.  Continually ask yourself, How are my highest values served by them doing what they love?’ You’ll find again and again that whatever you’re challenged to embrace in a person, represents your own … read more