Values and Relationships

Today I want to quote dr John F Demartitni. He says in his book “The Heart of Love”: “Wisdom is honouring other people’s value systems, knowing they’re going to live by them no matter what, and learning to truly love and appreciate that.  Continually ask yourself, How are my highest values served by them doing what they love?’ You’ll find again and again that whatever you’re challenged to embrace in a person, represents your own … read more


Principles of Coaching

As a life coach and relationship/marriage expert, I have certain beliefs that shape the coaching relationship. My integrity lies in the fact that I trust my clients to set the agenda because I believe that they are resourceful. Coaching is about helping them discover what their own potential is and how to grow towards fulfillment and happiness. I know that only they know the full story and therefore only they can implement the action agreed … read more


Marriage

What makes a happy marriage? It is a question we all ask………. “The answer is to be found, I think, in the mutual discovery, by two who marry, of the deepest need of the other’s personality, and the satisfaction of that need.” – Pearl Buck Harville Hendrix talks about the “conscious marriage”. What does that mean in practical terms? To become conscious of the things that drive my life unconsciously, is a rare and exciting … read more